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Because Putting Yourself First Is the Ritual
Main Character Energy in Every Flame
This is not your average self-care candle.
This is a flame-forged reminder that you come first—your joy, your peace, your power. The Selfish Intention Candleis 16 oz. of unapologetic self-love, poured with purpose for the woman who refuses to shrink. It’s for the novice witch, the bougie bruja, and the reawakening spiritualist who finally understands: self-love isn’t selfish, it’s sacred.
Scented Like Your Soft Era—with Bite
Rose– unconditional love wrapped in divine femininity
Jasmine – seductive confidence in full bloom
Musk– grounding energy that holds you like a truth you can't deny
Bergamot, Sandalwood & Citrus – clarity, joy, and clean boundaries in a single breath
Infused with High-Vibe Power Tools
Rose Quartz Crystal– the stone of love, healing, and heart-centered power
Peony Petals– root, sacral, and crown chakra support to remind you: you are the blessing
When to Burn It (and Own It)
During new moon rituals to set self-love intentions
After a hard day to remind yourself who you are
In the morning while you journal, stretch, or simply breathe
When your energy says “me first, me always”
“I choose me. I pour into me. I honor me.
Complete Ritual Kit Includes:
16 oz. Selfish Candle – Long-burning, clean, and spiritually potent.
Luxury Matchbox – Light your flame in style.
Instruction Card– With a link to full ritual care, candle safety, and pregnancy warnings.
Pregnancy Warning
This candle contains essential oils of Grapefruit, Orange, and Bergamot, which are not recommended during pregnancy. If you’re expecting or nursing, consult your healthcare provider before use. View our full Pregnancy Warning for more.
Manifest Your Vision with Selfish
This candle is a statement piece—for your altar and your spirit. It’s a reminder that your growth, your softness, your self-celebration is the ultimate flex.
Be selfish. Be sacred. Be seen. Because the glow-up is internal first—and baby, you’re already lit.
I absolutely love the smell of this soap! I can absolutely feel it cleansing me not only physically but energetically as well. I always feel refreshed both physically and spiritually after using it!